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Be the one people look to when the way forward is unclear.


You've led yourself this far.
Now you are being called further.

You're an intelligent, inspired person of integrity, called to lead, whether you have experience doing so or not.
Either way...

It's time to make the leap to being a leader who is effective and compassionate, even under stress.
Especially under stress.

You've proven you can succeed.
Now it's time to lead, without compromising your identity.


The Next Chapter of Your Leadership Starts Here

Contact Fabi Now

 
You've led yourself this far.
Now you are being called further.

You're an intelligent, inspired person of integrity, called to lead, whether you have experience doing so or not.
Either way...

It's time to make the leap to being a leader who is effective and compassionate, even under stress.
Especially under stress.

You've proven you can succeed.
Now it's time to lead, without compromising your identity.

 

The Next Chapter of Your Leadership Starts Here

 

Contact Fabi Now

 A former navy officer himself, Fabi understands the challenges of operational leadership. He was quite literally the best person (if not only person) capable of holding space and listening as I began to decompress and assess a long deployment. Fabi has a way of letting me vent where I can completely let go of frustrations, then turn my focus back to the important issues at hand.

Fabi has become very passionate about supporting younger or aspiring leaders. If you get the chance to speak with him, DO IT.

- Carlos Otero, Captain, U.S. Navy, former commanding officer U.S.S. NEW MEXICO, father of 2

Carlos Otero, Captain, U.S. Navy


A
 former navy officer himself, Fabi understands the challenges of operational leadership. He was quite literally the best person (if not only person) capable of holding space and listening as I began to decompress and assess a long deployment. Fabi has a way of letting me vent where I can completely let go of frustrations, then turn my focus back to the important issues at hand.

Fabi has become very passionate about supporting younger or aspiring leaders. If you get the chance to speak with him, DO IT.


 

I'm

Fabi Bouthillette

If you've ever looked at the leaders around you and thought:
"I can do better"
then what's holding you back!?
No, seriously, what's the deal?
You're in the right place to figure it out.

My clients include:

  • successful individual contributors, heeding the call of leadership
  • Ph.D.s, out of school and ready to engage the real world
  • small business owners
  • startup founders
  • recent divorcees reinventing themselves
  • a New York City art gallery founder/director.

I'm even the confidant to an active duty fast-attack submarine captain.

I'm passionate about helping honorable people, who care deeply about the people in their lives, step up from individual success and into leadership. 

I love listening to established leaders, honoring their service, and finding out what's up next in their journeys. 

Learn More About Fabi

I'm

Fabi Bouthillette

If you've ever looked at the leaders around you and thought:
"I can do better"
then what's holding you back!?
No, seriously, what's the deal?
You're in the right place to figure it out.

My clients include:

  • successful individual contributors
  • Ph.D.s
  • small business owners
  • startup founders
  • recent divorcees reinventing themselves
  • a New York City art gallery founder/director

I'm even the confidant to an active duty fast-attack submarine captain.

I'm passionate about helping honorable people step up from individual success and into leadership. 

I love listening to established leaders, honoring their service, and finding out what could be up next in their journeys.

Learn More About Fabi

There will be many more biographies written of Gore, but none will come from someone who was so close to him as Fabian. He is modest enough to take us on his journey as the great man’s apt pupil as well as his devoted assistant. It is a journey you are bound to enjoy and from which you are bound to learn.

- Stephen Fry, from his foreword to Gore Vidal’s Last Stand by Fabi Bouthillette

Stephen Fry
from his foreword to
Gore Vidal's Last Stand
by
Fabi Bouthillette

There will be many more biographies written of Gore, but none will come from someone who was so close to him as Fabian. He is modest enough to take us on his journey as the great man’s apt pupil as well as his devoted assistant. It is a journey you are bound to enjoy and from which you are bound to learn.

 

Let's Integrate Leadership with Your Lifestyle

Even cowards can endure hardship; only the brave can endure suspense.
- Mignon McLaughlin


After working with Fabi you will:

  • Not only endure suspense, but trust and embrace it.
  • Be clear on your leadership presence and how to maximize your impact.
  • Be effective at grounding your vision with your team, and getting everyone pulling together in the same direction.
  • Get underneath your own insecurities, ending patterns of self-betrayal once and for all. The people in your life will be grateful and more forthright.
  • Inspire thoughtful consultation with everyone in your world, but know when it's time to make a decision and get into action.
  • Understand what you are entitled to as a leader and what you are not, and how to cultivate both.
  • Be the one people look to when the way forward is unclear.


Whether you're guiding a team toward a mission-critical outcome or navigating your own personal evolution, your
situational and self-awareness determine your ability to act with clarity, presence, and integrity.

Learn More About Working With Fabi

Let's Integrate Leadership with Your Lifestyle


Even cowards can endure hardship; only the brave can endure suspense.
- Mignon McLaughlin


After working with Fabi you will:

  • Not only endure suspense, but trust and embrace it.
  • Be clear on your leadership presence and how to maximize your impact.
  • Be effective at grounding your vision with your team, and getting everyone pulling together in the same direction.
  • Get underneath your own insecurities, ending patterns of self-betrayal once and for all. The people in your life will be grateful and more forthright.
  • Inspire thoughtful consultation with everyone in your world, but know when it's time to make a decision and get into action.
  • Understand what you are entitled to as a leader and what you are not, and how to cultivate both.
  • Be the one people look to when the way forward is unclear.


Whether you're guiding a team toward a mission-critical outcome or navigating your own personal evolution, your
situational and self-awareness determine your ability to act with clarity, presence, and integrity.

Learn More About Working With Fabi